Take a look at some of the following websites related to parenting and being a woman in Tokyo and Japan. They are all really informative and great extra resources!
AngloINFO Tokyo - Everything you need for your life in Tokyo and in English. Including 500+ upcoming events, Classifieds, Living Guide Information pages, Apartments, Jobs plus much more!
KA International Mothers in Japan
Tokyo Urban Baby
Best Living Japan
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